I started talking more about what I did in a day to my husband and my friends - even went as far as writing it down for a few days so he could actually see where my time went - which was always his question - it hasn't solved the problem but he's stopped asking what I do all day and when he does he gets an earful. My friends too since I have started chatting more about my schedule have come to realize I do work behind those closed doors - I know talking about work is the last thing you want to do when you finally get a break but it might help - good luck